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Richard Siken

You Are Jeff

Fiction | Poem | Adult | Published in 2019

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Background

Interpretative Context

At one point in the poem, the speaker makes an explicit hermeneutic statement (a statement about interpretation): “This is how you make the meaning, you take two things and try to define the space between them” (Stanza 18). That stanza brings together identity and desire, asking both who “You” wants to be and whom “You” loves: “Jeff or Jeff?” Each Jeff’s identity, however, acquires meaning only in the context of other Jeffs: Jeff may appear aggressive because other Jeffs’ behavior is mild, or someone finds Jeff handsome because he looks like other Jeffs who have been called handsome. This is important to the poet, as he reveals in an interview while discussing his dislike of reducing identity to a name:

Naming restricts. Once restricted, it’s easy to be judged and punished. […] In ‘You Are Jeff,’ everyone in the world—including the speaker and the reader—is named Jeff. With only one identity, each part of the world must now define itself in relation to its other parts, rather than as a stand-alone thing, independent of context (Russell, Legacy. “Fight Club: Richard Siken.” 2011. Bomb Magazine).

Accordingly, the poem refuses to “name” its meaning, to state it explicitly. Instead, it accumulates meaning through a series of evocative phrases and images, strategically juxtaposed and reiterated, like pieces of a puzzle that each reader puts together somewhat differently. Nevertheless, some prevailing themes and emotions are likely to resonate in each reader’s experience.

In the same interview, Siken tells the story of a high school student who was writing a paper on one of his poems and emailed him to ask for significant events in his life that would help her understand his poetry. Siken responded that if she needed that kind of information to make sense of the poem, then “the poem was a failure.” She wrote back complaining that he was rude and that she would get a B on her paper. Siken sums up his view thus: “You get the page. I get the rest.” While it is highly likely that some feelings and actions depicted in Crush originate in the poet’s own experiences, it is unnecessary, even misguided, to assume that knowing more about his life leads to a better understanding of his work. Literary critics have called this the biographical fallacy: the idea that a work of literature directly reflects the author’s experience and should be interpreted in that light. This approach is limiting because it ignores two key facts: firstly, due to the complexity of language, the meaning of a literary work always exceeds the author’s intention, and secondly, each reader brings to the text her own thoughts and emotions, which contribute to the creation of meaning, which happens when the reader actively engages with the words on the page.

Social Context

In the final stanza of “You Are Jeff,” just as the hope emerges that love between two men might be possible (or possible again), shame and guilt raise their ugly heads. Two boys sit next to each other and love each other, though nothing has been spoken yet. All of a sudden, “you feel like you’ve done something terrible, like robbed a liquor store, or swallowed pills, or shoveled yourself a grave in the dirt, and you are tired” (Stanza 24). In part, this feeling might be triggered by the uncertainty about the other boy’s feelings. If one boy’s love is not reciprocated by the other, rejection, or worse, disgust may be the response to it. However, the sentiments are extreme: The boy feels like he is stealing or destroying himself, just because he loves another boy and hopes to be loved in return. These feelings are a sign of internalized rejection and intolerance, which happens when gay or lesbian people allow a society’s negative messages about being gay to penetrate their own way of thinking and feeling about themselves. Frequently, the result is a sense of shame or guilt caused by one’s own orientation, including romantic or sexual desires, sometime rising to the level of self-loathing. That is what can turn one’s hope for love into the feeling of “shovel[ing] yourself a grave.” While this moment in the last stanza might be the most conspicuous example, rejection, unfairness, and heteronormativity (social privileging of heterosexuality) arguably inform the whole poem, which represents love between men as constantly threatened by tension, disruption, and even violence. Some of that negativity is the result or reflection of social scrutiny and disapproval directed at gay men. The poem alludes to various challenges that all romantic relationships have in common (growing apart, miscommunication, lust, betrayal, death), but it is important to keep in mind that “You Are Jeff” explores the experiences of men who are fully aware, and likely burdened by the awareness, that their love and desire are often perceived as immoral or unnatural.

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