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Emma is the protagonist and narrator of The Rom-Commers. She grew up in Texas with her mother, father, and younger sister Sylvie and planned to go to college with a writing scholarship before her family experienced a tragic camping accident shortly after her graduation. The accident and its aftermath have defined her life, leading her to find strength and self-reliance as a caregiver. However, Emma struggles with Balancing Caregiving and Self-Care to the point where it has prevented her from pursuing her dream for a decade. Though Emma is a dynamic character, she is stuck in a rut throughout most of the novel, afraid to take chances on herself but also afraid to rely on others. Used to doing everything herself, Emma rarely allows others to help her, let alone comfort her. She is selfless but to a fault, rarely putting herself first and feeling extreme guilt when she does so. Toward the novel’s end, particularly with Charlie’s help, Emma begins to learn the benefits of putting herself first and making choices for her own sake rather than for others. The greatest change in Emma’s character comes when she learns to overcome her guilt. With her father’s help, Emma finally sees that she is not to blame for the camping accident, and she must not let it keep her from living her life the way she wants to.
Emma’s belief in the rom-com genre, which features romantic happy endings, links her to the theme of The Existence of Love. Not only is it the genre in which she typically writes, but she believes that “we gravitate toward the stories we need in life” (76). Emma’s passion for storytelling is reflected in her role as a narrator, where she often includes things or conceals information to add suspense to the story or to soothe the feelings of her audience. In her narration and her relationship with Charlie, she often uses Selective Truth Telling, excluding details about the camping accident and why she hasn’t taken chances in life to hide her grief and guilt as well.
Charlie Yates is a highly acclaimed Hollywood screenwriter and Emma’s love interest in The Rom-Commers. Charlie has a complicated relationship with love and doubts The Existence of Love at the beginning of the novel. He is highly cynical about rom-coms because of this, not seeing their value and thinking the genre is unnecessary until Emma explains to him how meaningful love stories can be. Like Emma, Charlie has learned not to trust others to take care of him, which furthers his cynicism. However, at the story’s end, it is revealed that Charlie is merely scared of falling in love and being disappointed.
Five years before the novel begins, Charlie was diagnosed with soft-tissue-sarcoma. Though he went through treatment and is about to be officially declared cancer-free at the time of the novel, his diagnosis and journey with cancer influenced him greatly. Since his diagnosis, Charlie has had “the yips” and has been unable to write anything new on his own. On the day he was diagnosed, his wife Margaux also told him she wanted a divorce, further upending his life. Margaux’s abandonment of Charlie mirrored an earlier influential incident in his life when his mother left him when he was in the hospital recovering from a near-fatal drowning that left him terrified of water. It is partially because of these two incidents that Charlie does not put faith in others and does not believe in love.
Unlike Emma, Charlie always puts himself first, believing it is the only way to take care of himself. Yet Charlie is also a dynamic character, and, like Emma, their romance causes him to learn more about himself and become a better person. When he believes his cancer has returned, Charlie knows he must end his relationship with Emma as he fears she would give up her life to take care of him as she has done with her father. His relationship with Emma changes Charlie for the better, making him learn to be grateful for everything he has and to believe in the existence of love.
Sylvie is Emma’s younger sister and closest friend. At the beginning of the novel, she has just graduated college with top honors and plans to go into the medical profession. She has earned a prestigious internship that Emma insists she takes. Though Sylvie isn’t aware of how much Emma has done to care for her family over the past decade, she knows that Emma treats herself unfairly, so she decides to give up the internship when she hears of Emma’s once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to work with Charlie Yates. Though Emma doubts her abilities to take care of their father, Sylvie proves to be a competent caregiver and frequently updates Emma on their father’s progress as well as helps her older sister gain confidence in herself.
Though Emma fears Sylvie thinks too much of herself to help their father, Sylvie shows Emma how to do better at Balancing Caregiving and Self-Care. Sylvie is attentive to her father but doesn’t let this get in the way of taking time for herself. She has a career and a boyfriend, and rather than keeping them separate from her father, she implements both to help him. Sylvie and Emma’s relationship is nearly ruined when both sisters say the cruelest things they can think of after their father is hospitalized, yet their connection is so strong that they are able to rebuild their relationship. When Sylvie marries her boyfriend Salvador in their father’s hospital room, she asks Emma to be her maid of honor. In many ways, Sylvie seems to be the antithesis of Emma, yet she serves as a good example for her older sister throughout the novel.
Emma and Sylvie’s father plays an important role in The Rom-Commers despite being unnamed in the text. From the beginning, Emma praises her father and his kindness. She is especially in awe of his optimism in the face of his situation, saying, “How did he stand beside a personal Grand Canyon of suffering and manage to feel…grateful?” (22). After the camping accident that killed his wife, Emma’s father suffered a traumatic brain injury that left him partially paralyzed and with a condition called Ménière’s disease, which often led to sudden falls. Still, he remained a positive influence on his daughters and tried to help them through their grief the best way he could.
Perhaps his most important characteristic is his outlook on life, as it leads Emma to reconsider how she leads hers. After admitting her feelings of guilt about inadvertently causing her mother’s death, Emma asks her father how he remains so positive. Her father tells her,
Whatever story you tell yourself about your life, that’s the one that’ll be true [...]. So if I say, ‘This terrible thing happened, and it ruined my life’—then that’s true. But if I say, ‘This terrible thing happened, but, as crazy as it sounds, it made me better,’ then that’s what’s true’ (241).
This is an especially critical moment in the novel, as it is what finally helps Emma move beyond her guilt and start to recognize how storytelling is important on a personal level. Emma’s father’s optimism not only helps him to remain positive but also shows his daughters the reasons why life is worth living.
By Katherine Center