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Sloan Wilson

The Man in the Gray Flannel Suit

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 1955

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Chapters 33-41Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Chapter 33 Summary

Susan elopes with Byron Holgate, much to Hopkins’s surprise. Helen asks her husband to send her away on a cruise for several months and asks him to sell their South Bay mansion. Desperate to placate his wife, Hopkins agrees. Hopkins asks Tom to meet with him to form an exploratory committee for the mental health campaign. As he issues instructions, he paces the room. Tom is put in charge of the project. They share a drink and talk briefly, though the conversation is awkward and novel. They talk about work, family, and war. Hopkins asks about Tom’s career and Tom responds honestly, prompting Hopkins to offer him a job as his personal assistant so that he can better understand the company and determine which department might be right for him. Tom thanks Hopkins for the opportunity. As he rides the train home, he learns about Susan’s marriage from a newspaper. At home, Tom admits that he has mixed feelings about the job offer as he does not want to get a job through friendship. He also does not want to spend so much of his life working, as Hopkins does. He suspects that Hopkins is taking a personal interest in him because he is lonely and “he’s trying to hire a son” (228). Tom plans to take the job but is wary of the future.

Chapter 34 Summary

The next day, Janey refuses to go to school, and Betsy sympathizes with her daughter, disparaging the school as run down and shabby. Tom convinces Janey to go to school, but she demands that he go with her to examine a hallway that frightens her. Though he will be late for work, Tom takes Janey to school. He learns that Janey was knocked down in the cramped, crowded, claustrophobic hall. Leaving the school, he resolves to earn more money to pay for private school for his children. Alternatively, he could campaign for a new public school to be built in South Bay, which would also raise the value of his grandmother’s land.

Chapter 35 Summary

Two days later, Tom begins working as Hopkins’s personal assistant. He dictates responses to Hopkins’s mail, though he receives numerous edits and suggestions. As he sets meetings, Tom receives a request from Caesar Gardella. Tom calls Gardella, who reveals that he has a new job but promises to contact Tom if he hears anything about Maria. Tom assumes that he will never hear what happened to Maria or his son.

Ogden reveals that Tom will continue to work on the mental health project alongside his duties as Hopkins’s personal assistant. Ogden is critical and demanding, telling Tom that he must learn to anticipate Hopkins’s needs. Tom is quietly angry as he returns to his desk, where he struggles to focus on the immense workload. He does not know how he will have time to do everything. The ticking of his watch reminds him of Maria. Betsy telephones, suggesting that he come home to prepare for their meeting. Tom tells her how packed his schedule has become. He blames himself for giving people impossible expectations of him, as well as for wasting his time. He returns to work.

Chapter 36 Summary

Tom and Betsy attend the public hearing on the proposed new school. Building a new school would allow for the building of new houses (such as Tom’s housing project), but not everyone wants the town’s population to grow. Tom is confronted directly about his plans, and he admits that he has a housing project in mind but argues that the current state of the public school demands that they build a new school regardless of the housing plans. He receives some applause, but the debate rages back and forth. Betsy unexpectedly speaks in favor of the school, and a vote is planned for the following week. On the way home, Betsy and Tom praise each other’s efforts. At home, Tom receives a call from Hopkins, inviting him on a four-day trip to Hollywood to learn about the business. Betsy is pleased for the opportunity, though it is the longest that they will have been apart since the war. She suggests that they take a vacation sometime soon, without the children.

Chapter 37 Summary

Tom meets Hopkins at the airport. In public, Hopkins seems meek and small. He works throughout the trip and remains energetic even after the long flight. In a flurry of meetings, Tom is introduced to many people. At the hotel after a long day, Hopkins and Tom talk in private. Hopkins hints that Tom could move to Hollywood to set up a new division of the company, spending a year on the west coast. Tom suspects that Hopkins is trying to politely get rid of him. Tom speaks frankly, telling Hopkins that he does not want to make the sacrifices that Hopkins has made. Hopkins laughs and appreciates Tom’s honesty. He resolves to find the right place in the company for Tom. He suggests a full-time position running the mental health committee out of the house in South Bay, meaning no commuting. In a passionate flurry of words, Hopkins then defends his work habits. Tom thanks Hopkins and they retire for the night.

Chapter 38 Summary

The next day, Hopkins agrees to send Tom back to New York and speaks enthusiastically about the future. He asks Tom to deliver an envelope full of plans to Ogden. Tom calls Betsy to tell her the news. He catches the next plane home and arrives late and tired. Dropping past the office on the way home, he hands the envelope to Ogden and then reads a message left at his desk. The message is from Gardella, who explains that Louis has died and Maria is desperate for help. Tom arranges to meet Gardella for lunch, believing that he will need to tell Betsy about the affair so that he can help Maria. He hopes the housing project will succeed so he will have enough money. Tom meets Gardella for lunch. Maria has written a letter, which Gardella hands to Tom. Enclosing a photograph of Tom’s son, Maria asks Tom for financial help. Gardella suggests that $100 a month would do a great deal to help Maria and the boy; Tom asks for time to think and make arrangements. Gardella appreciates Tom’s desire to help. For the rest of the day, Tom works hard and drinks too much. He feels terrible and, reaching home, lies on his bed. Betsy tries to help him but he tells her nothing.

Chapter 39 Summary

The day of the school vote arrives. The community is divided as to how to vote. Tom works all day and returns to South Bay, thinking of Maria. The voting closes and the new school is approved. After, Bernstein invites Tom for a drink to discuss the zoning problem. He recommends that Tom submit his plans as soon as possible. Tom returns home to Betsy, hoping to tell her about Maria. After Betsy puts the children to bed, they talk in private. Tom struggles to tell Betsy everything. He plans to support the child with $100 a month, and he would like Betsy’s blessing. During his two-month affair, Betsy remembers, she assumed he was dead. Tom insists that he loves Betsy more than he loved Maria. He explains that he felt scared and hopeless during the war, which drove him into the affair. He wants to put right what he can by supporting the child. Resentfully, Betsy gives her blessing but expands on the state of their passionless marriage. They feign affection, she says, for the sake of the children. Tom hopes that things will be better in the future. He chases her outside and kisses her, though she bites him and draws blood. As they roll on the grass, he holds her while she sobs. Betsy asks for time alone to think. From inside the house, he hears Betsy start the car and set off down the same road on which his father crashed many years before. He watches her drive away and then returns home.

Chapter 40 Summary

Betsy calls a few hours later, explaining that the car broke down when she was returning home. She is in a police station, and Tom arranges for her to catch a cab home. Tom greets Betsy outside the house and they walk together. As Tom declares his love for her, Betsy explains her emotions. She wants to help Maria and her son and she wants Tom to tell her about his traumatic experiences in the war. She wants their marriage to be honest. Tom explains how, returning from the war, nothing in the peaceful society made sense to him. Now, he is thankful to Betsy and Caesar Gardella for shaking him out of his cynicism. He has become “almost an optimist” (273). He wants to take a vacation with just Betsy. They affirm their love for one another.

Chapter 41 Summary

Tom talks to Bernstein about setting up a support mechanism for his illegitimate son. Bernstein agrees to do this free of charge because he likes “simple justice.” Tom, delighted, rushes out and meets with Betsy. They plan to drive together to Vermont.

Chapters 33-41 Analysis

The portrayal of the marriage between Helen and Ralph Hopkins illustrates what he has sacrificed for his corporate success, but the elopement of his daughter Susan represents a critical point of failure for Hopkins. He promised Helen that he would intervene to help Susan, only to immediately fail. His relationship with his daughter, he is made to realize, cannot be dealt with through business meetings and development plans. His family is not just another corporate division which he can supervise as he sees fit. Rather, he has emotional obligations that he has abdicated and—as Susan runs away to marry a much older man—he must deal with the consequences. Susan’s elopement is a critical point of failure for Hopkins because it shows him the limitations of his power. His astonishing success in the business world means nothing in the context of his family—less than nothing, in fact, because it actively corrodes his family’s wellbeing. Hopkins is deeply affected by Susan’s departure because he is confronted with the consequences of his decisions. However, he does not change his life. He maintains his commitment to the corporate world, having already dedicated too much and sacrificed too much. Hopkins is too deep in the corporate world to ever escape.

Tom watches the changes in Hopkins’s life up close and sees The Illusory Nature of the American Dream. The wealthy and powerful businessman appears at first glance to have everything Tom wants. However, in a series of private meetings, Tom sees a raw, vulnerable side of his employer which he never noticed before. Tom is in a critical moment of his life. He has two choices: he can follow in Hopkins’s footsteps and throw himself completely into the corporate world, or he can sacrifice some professional success for his family. Seeing the bleakness of Hopkins’s success, Tom chooses his family. His frank and honest discussion with Hopkins is all the more important because he is acting just as Betsy has asked him to act. She told him to cast aside the pragmatic, professional cynicism that he believed was necessary to succeed in the corporate world, and after their discussion, Hopkins appreciates Tom’s honesty. Tom does not necessarily succeed in rising to the highest heights of the corporate world, but he succeeds in casting off the limitations of the men in the gray flannel suits. He finds a way to merge the professional and domestic worlds, becoming as successful as possible while maintaining a happy family. He might not have as much money or respect as Hopkins, but he now values his own family much more than these markers of status.

Amid Tom’s rejection of corporate culture, however, his commitment to honesty has consequences in his marriage. He must atone for his past actions by telling Betsy about his affair with Maria and about the child he now wishes to support. The conversation is not easy, particularly contrasted with the relatively straightforward discussion with Hopkins. Tom must confess his sins to Betsy and, in doing so, he hurts her. He reveals his vulnerability to her at last, but doing so also exposes her (justified) vulnerability. She must learn to see her husband as someone entirely new and not necessarily as someone who is unimpeachably good. Previously, Tom’s only crimes in her eyes were emotional distance and coldness. Now, he has a litany of mistakes that she must either accept or reject. Betsy decides to accept Tom’s mistakes but she does so at a price. Betsy demands openness and honesty from her husband in every respect, insisting that he live according to her principles. Ultimately, Tom accepts these conditions in the same way that he rejected the demands of the lifestyle that Hopkins offered him. Tom dedicates himself to his wife not just through his words, but through his acceptance of her forgiveness and her values.

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