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Herman Koch

The Dinner

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2009

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Character Analysis

Paul Lohman

As the novel’s protagonist and narrator, Paul Lohman occupies a strange position in the narrative. He is a violent man, a person frequently forced to suppress his brutal ideations but not always successful. On numerous occasions, Paul imagines beating someone to a pulp and—in the case of the school principal and his brother—he unleashes his anger. As a result of this barely-contained violence, Paul is in a difficult position as a narrator. He must outline an incident in which his son committed a terrible act—a violent murder—without incriminating himself. He is in fact worried that a police officer might one day read this narrative and use it as evidence. But Paul cannot contain himself. His lack of control becomes one of his defining characteristics. When Michel tells Paul about murdering Beau and the homeless woman, Paul cannot control his laughter. A deeply unsympathetic man, seeing the narrative from the perspective of Paul occasionally becomes incredibly uncomfortable.

 

But there is occasional doubt cast as to the veracity of the events described in the novel. Paul is an unreliable narrator. Even his confessions of his random acts of obscene ultraviolence become questionable. For instance, Paul described the incredibly violent way in which he attacked the school principal. But he does not mention whether he served time in prison for this attack. There is the possibility that—like so many of Paul’s violent daydreams—the attack took place entirely in Paul’s head. This presents the audience with a conundrum: take Paul at his word and accept his narrative as the portrayal of a deeply malicious man or believe that very little of the story is reliable and accept that the narrative is an invention. Paul’s active lack of empathy finds mediation in a number of ways. Firstly, those around him are equally deplorable. Secondly, he is not always in possession of all the facts, including information withheld from him. Thirdly, he may have a serious mental health condition. Though the condition isn’t named, Paul’s aggression and moral failings could stem from an illness and—as such—Paul’s behavior has a partial explanation. It is not, however, excused. A violent, unlikable man, Paul is the reader’s guide through an increasingly bizarre and depraved dinner.   

Claire Lohman

Claire is Paul’s wife and, as revealed over the course of the novel, her morality is just as malleable as that of her husband. At first, Claire seems to be the quiet, caring mother. She dotes on her son, to the point that she invokes her husband’s jealousy. Claire is attentive and emotionally intelligent, consoling Babette when it seems that Babette is upset and halting many of Paul’s socially unacceptable impulses with little more than a look. But as the narrative progresses, Paul (and the audience) begin to realize that Claire is far more complicit in the cover-up of the murder than anyone had suspected. Claire will do anything to protect Michel, which includes hand waving away the murder of a homeless woman and stabbing her brother-in-law in the face with a broken wine glass.

 

Toward the end of the novel, Paul discovers a newfound admiration for Claire. Though he has always been affectionate toward her (often imagining burying his face in her hair, for example), he respects her ability to lie, manipulate, and commit acts of violence. When he realizes that she has been constructing an alibi for their son and that she has told Michel to potentially murder Beau, Paul is delighted, joined now in his violent impulses and morally dubious behavior by the woman he loves. He no longer has to hide his impulses. Because the narrative comes entirely from Paul’s perspective, the audience discovers Claire’s amorality just as he does. Thus, Paul presents it through a lens of admiration rather than condemnation. That Claire is prepared to do anything for Michel is an admiral quality for Paul, creating a cognitive dissonance within the narrative. The audience knows her actions are not morally sound yet the narrative presents them (from Paul’s perspective) as commendable. In this respect, Claire’s evolution as a character shows to the audience the tension at the heart of the narrative, which begs the question of how far one might go in order to protect a child. 

Serge Lohman

Serge is Paul’s successful older brother. Expected to be the next prime minister of the Netherlands, he is famous throughout the country. But seen from Paul’s perspective, Serge seems a deeply loathsome man. He is pretentious and cynical. He barely masks his boorish, lumpen character behind a polished political sheen. When introduced to the narrative, Serge arrives in the restaurant and his wife is already in tears. Serge’s lack of empathy toward Babette’s palpable sadness turns the audience against him and adds to Serge’s negative qualities.

 

Though Serge does not change throughout the novel, the evolution of the other characters casts him in a new light. By the end of the meal, Serge is the only one of the four diners who is willing to expose the murder committed by the two boys. He is not willing to live with the death of the homeless woman on his conscience. That he even hints at the existence of a conscience elevates him above the other characters in a moral sense, all of whom are happy to cover up the murder and pretend that it never happened. There is a nuance to this, however. Serge is not necessarily acting in the interests of morality. He sees exposing the crime through the paradigm of his political career. Indeed, he does not intend to go to the police but has chosen to host a press conference instead. As such, his decision to expose the criminal nature of Rick and Michel is a political act rather than a moral act. Serge is not acting out of guilt but because of his own self-interest. Still, this narcissistic facsimile of morality is the closest any character comes to doing the right thing. While he may be acting for the wrong reasons—and confirming Paul’s low opinion of his brother—Serge is nevertheless the only character who is prepared to take a moral position on the murder.

 

As a result of this, Serge loses everything. Claire stabs him in the face and costs him the election. The murder remains covered up and Serge loses his political status. In a novel which ends with immortality as the victor, Serge receives punishment for taking a principled stance, even though he does so for the wrong reasons. 

Babette Lohman

Serge’s wife and possible future First Lady of the Netherlands, Babette is a difficult character to analyze. At first, she appears to be beside herself with grief. The assumption is that the actions of her child have driven her into sadness and she cannot cope with the potential aftermath of what will happen to Rick. But toward the end of the novel, it’s revealed that Babette’s sadness actually stems from Serge’s decision to withdraw from the election. She has no trouble with covering up the murder of the homeless woman and does not want her husband to sacrifice his political career. They have worked too long and hard to give up on their dream over the small matter of the death of one homeless woman. In this respect, Babette becomes the best embodiment of the complete moral abandonment which settles over the table at the close of the narrative.

 

By the end of the meal, every character but Serge seems intent on ignoring their moral responsibility. They are happy to allow the murder to remain unsolved, to allow their children to walk away unpunished. Babette, throughout the meal, has been emotionally fraught. She has wept, shouted, sworn, and acted in an unpredictable manner. But rather than feel emotionally punished by her son’s actions, she is acting purely in self-interest. This battle between self-interest and morality easily becomes a victory for the former, as it is for every character. Babette embodies the satire of the novel, the manner in which these rich and privileged characters will quickly put aside their morality in order to preserve (or extend) their good fortune.

 

An example of this is Babette’s treatment of her dessert. She makes her choice and—when it arrives at the table—she suddenly changes her mind. She demands that the floor manager take it back and then insults the floor manager when he hesitates in doing exactly as she demands. In this situation, Babette is in the wrong. She is rude, uncompromising, and unpredictable. But she casts herself as the victim, blaming others for her sudden change of mind. The treatment of the dessert functions as the characters’ conception of morality in a microcosm: They are privileged beyond belief but—at the slightest hint of an issue—they react violently and blame everyone else for their failings. This attitude appears in the murder and in the parents’ reaction to the murder. As a result, Babette becomes the functional embodiment of the novel’s satire of the rich and powerful. 

Michel Lohman

Paul’s son Michel is a killer. The slow build-up to the reveal of the true extent of his crimes reveals Michel to be a thoroughly unlikable teenager. He abuses homeless people and records himself doing so, then he murders a homeless woman because she inconveniences him in a minor way, and—at the end of the novel—he kills his adopted cousin with his parents’ permission. In many ways, Michel reflects his father, a strange and violent person who has little hesitation in lying, manipulating, and attacking other people.

 

For the most part, Michel is absent from the narrative. The only time he is present and not seen in a flashback or a memory is when he comes to collect his phone from Paul at the restaurant. Due to this lack of presence in the narrative, the character’s actions come almost entirely from Paul’s recollection. Therefore, the character is not necessarily Michel but Paul’s interpretation of Michel. From Paul’s perspective, his son is quiet, reserved, and a rival for Claire’s affections. At many times, Paul focuses on the pronouns used when discussing Michel and pays particular attention to how this affects his relationship to Claire. Does Claire prefer Michel or Paul? Does Michel view both parents as equals? Does he love them equally? Paul obsesses over these questions and they color the presentation of Michel.

 

It is also this jealousy and suspicion which makes the final lines of the novel so effective. Having just murdered his cousin, Michel talks to his father. Paul cannot help but laugh and, in that moment, Michel chooses to hug his father tight and call him “dear old dad” (163). For the first real time, Paul and Michel share an emotional moment. They bond and are no longer competing for Claire’s affections. Father and son are unified, brought together by acts of extreme violence. That it takes such brutality to bring them together provides the novel with a final moment of ironic absurdity. Whereas most families bond together by love and affection, Paul and Michel have their closest moment in the aftermath of a murder. 

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